You’re ready to… Unleash your potential Unleash your potential. Trust yourself. Ditch the “shoulds.” Take up space. Stop editing yourself. Stop waiting for “one day.”

Career, identity and inner work with Cydnee DeToy

My clients have worked at

  • Amazon
  • McKinsey & Company
  • BCG
  • Oura
  • Meta
  • Deutsche Bank

Hi! I’m Cydnee. It’s so nice to meet you.

I’m a former consultant, chief of staff and c-suite leader turned coach. I’ve been doing this work since 2019, and full-time since 2023.

I work with:

Ambitious, high-achieving millennial women ready for something new.

The women I work with are aggressively ambitious about life – sometimes that’s building a $100M business you’ll exit in ten years and sometimes that’s crafting a portfolio career that maximizes flexibility while your kids are young.

The specifics don’t really matter.

You care deeply about who you are and how you show up in the world. You want to maximize this one precious life and live full out – professionally and personally.

You have a vision of what’s possible…the version of you working at your fullest potential, grounded in your inner authority and living a life deeply true to yourself.

Not to mention, well rested, vibrantly healthy and perfectly put together (wink).

And yet, you keep getting bogged down in life – pulled in ten different directions besides your own. Ping-ponging between planning your kids’ camp schedules, trying to act on your mogul aunt’s advice and pushing through just one-more bonus cycle.

You’ve outsourced your personal power to loved ones’ feedback, research or exhaustive consultation with your favorite AI guru.

Yes, you have a mortgage and very real responsibilities, but have let your dreams be drowned out by what’s “practical,” “responsible” and what you “should” do.

The vision of the life you want to be living keeps getting punted to “one day.”

Here’s the thing:

You don’t have to wait.

Here’s what changes when we work together:

You stop asking everyone else what you should do. You hear your own answer, and you trust it. (The late-night chats with your favorite AI get a lot shorter.)

You stop questioning your value. You know what you’re good at, you advocate for what you’re worth and you own it.

You stop getting stuck on “I don’t know.” You get clear on what you want your life to look like and start running towards it – you make the brave decisions, have the bold conversations, put money behind it.

Instead of waiting for “one day,” you’re building the life you want today.

The proof

Credentials

125+
Women coached
1k+
Hours coached
Top 10
Business school
6years
From consulting associate to partner
C-suite
At 34, leading a team of seven
200+
Hours of coach training and certification
3
Trainings in yoga, Reiki and somatic dance

Three ways

How we can work together.

Career coachingAmbition Reimagined

For women who know they’re ready for what’s next and can’t see it yet.

Details coming soon.

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1x1 coachingIdentity + embodiment

For women who are done playing small and ready to change who they’re becoming, not just what job comes next.

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Retreat waitlist

For women who want to do this work in a room together, in person.

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Free resources

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Weekly Notes

Musings on my personal journey + client learnings to inspire and teach you.

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Podcast

Chats with coaching clients on how they’ve designed the lives they want.

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Playbooks

Guides to help you deepen your self-trust + intuition.

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